Clutch replacement R1 2007

I've done a wheelie and I killed the clutch =( I only take OEM . There's just a lot of disks... And being different, in different sizes and different thickness.
Part No. Thickness
4B1-16324-00 1.6 mm (0.062 in)
5VY-16325-00 2.0 mm (0.079 in) STD
4B1-16325-00 2.3 mm (0.091 in)

As I understand it, to take the standard. But someone tried to use other?

A red mark that ordered new. Blue is questionable...
13 - nut only if you need a new spin. When replacing drives, it is not necessary.
11-12 - they do wear out?
That's what, and in the manual about the clutch no enough written. :(
The clutch I'm not disassemble... now i think what to order....